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Q: What do you think of fading friendships and relationships in the modern era?

Krishna: 

Times have changed.
Friends or relatives for that matter, in earlier times were a psychological treasure to hold on to and celebrate. 
These days there are just like trophies to show off how powerful, rich, or influential you are.
They are now like  - you upvote for me, I will upvote for you. You support me during an argument on or off line, I will support you. You give me a gift, I will give you mine. If you come to my house, I will come to yours!
Attitudes! Egos! Misunderstandings! Biases! 
Who cares for such types of friendships or relationships? 
I say this because I can see through the masks people wear. No individual is immune to my gaze. People stand before me with naked brains exposing their circuits. I can read them like books. I can view the dramas enacted clearly.
I feel very uncomfortable to ignore all this and pretend normality. Although I manage it, in my mind I know I cannot blend into this atmosphere. 
Now if I say, "I am my own good friend and relation too?"
 
This is what higher awakening made me realize.

Why the Universe Isolates You In Your Awakening Journey ....

One of the most common experiences after a higher awakening is total isolation and complete separation.

You will be set apart and not allowed to blend.

When we awaken we no longer relate to people in the same way; we move away from superficial and one-sided friendships and  relationships and towards aligned ones.

Isolation is a normal and often necessary part of a spiritual awakening because it creates space for inner growth, self-discovery, and a deeper connection with the universe. This solitude allows individuals to process new truths, confront the fear of being alone, and distinguish what aligns with their authentic self, ultimately preparing them for more authentic and empowering relationships with themselves and the universe.

Human friendships and relationships are now superficial and have no depth no matter how much you praise them and think yours are different.

Spirituality views most human friendships and relationships as potentially superficial, especially those lacking genuine substance, shared spiritual values, or mutual support for growth. Because they lack depth, they foster attachment, they are based on worldly desires, they lack the power of understanding, and based on showiness. 

True spiritual friendship involves a lack of possessiveness or attachment to outcomes. 

How many people truly understand this?

Many spiritual traditions also emphasize deeply meaningful, selfless, and karmic connections that transcend superficiality. The spiritual perspective encourages relationships that promote growth and transformation, rather than being based on possessiveness or selfish desires. 

Being alone is beautiful. Loneliness is lovely. 

I AM MY OWN GOOD FRIEND AND RELATION TOO!

I am immune to other external influences.

Good friends and relatives? They are a rarity now.

If I find them, I cherish them. Otherwise, it doesn't matter!

Know what? Children are much more preferable than adults to make friends with!

Innocent emotions are oaky, not ego based ones. 

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