SCI-ART LAB

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Q: Do you lost interest in your hobbies after the awakening?

Krishna: I communicate science ( science education) through art and literature (writing poems and stories based on science).

This is a different ball game altogether. So I didn't lose interest in them at all.
Saying that the hobbies serve only one or two purposes is not correct. Some are not done for external validation or ego satisfaction.
They serve many purposes.
When the purpose is right, they help in more awareness, and you don't lose interest in them all through the awakening process.
Science is a way of understanding the universe and finding facts in a genuine way and helps in the awakening process too. It enhances your knowledge and wisdom. It is not a hollow endeavour. Helping others too understand this is a highly fulfilling venture.
Q: Why do awakened people want to be alone?
Krishna: 
Times have changed.
Friends or relatives for that matter, in earlier times were a psychological treasure to hold on to and celebrate. 
These days there are just like trophies to show off how powerful, rich, or influential you are.
They are now like  - you upvote for me, I will upvote for you. You support me during an argument on or off line, I will support you. You give me a gift, I will give you mine. 
Attitudes! Egos!
Who cares for such types of friendships or relationships? 
I say this because I can see through the masks people wear. No individual is immune to my gaze. People stand before me with naked brains exposing their circuits. I can read them like books. I can view the drama clearly.
I feel very uncomfortable to ignore all this and pretend normality. Although I manage it, in my mind I know I cannot blend into this atmosphere. 
Now if I say, "I am my own good friend and relation too?"
 
This is what higher awakening made me realize.

Why the Universe Isolates You In Your Awakening Journey ....

One of the most common experiences after a higher awakening is total isolation and complete separation.

You will be set apart and not allowed to blend.

When we awaken we no longer relate to people in the same way; we move away from superficial and one-sided friendships and  relationships and towards aligned ones.

Isolation is a normal and often necessary part of a spiritual awakening because it creates space for inner growth, self-discovery, and a deeper connection with the universe. This solitude allows individuals to process new truths, confront the fear of being alone, and distinguish what aligns with their authentic self, ultimately preparing them for more authentic and empowering relationships with themselves and the universe.

Human friendships and relationships are now superficial and have no depth no matter how much you praise them and think yours are different.

Spirituality views most human friendships and relationships as potentially superficial, especially those lacking genuine substance, shared spiritual values, or mutual support for growth. Because they lack depth, they foster attachment, they are based on worldly desires, they lack the power of understanding, and based on showiness. 

True spiritual friendship involves a lack of possessiveness or attachment to outcomes. 

How many people truly understand this?

So I have good  friends, colleagues, acquaintances, neighbours and  relatives. But I don't go very deep into these human interactions. Just to the extent necessary to be in harmony with this world. That's it.

However, I try to understand with humiliation all the drama I witness. I try to comprehend the human psyche in its entirety. I don't try to feel superior or egoistic. I try to balance everything to still stay grounded and to live in harmony. I try to tone down these things only to the extent needed. I manage it very well.

But all this makes me very exhausted. So I prefer isolation to regain my energy and concentrate on my all important work. To gain more insights. To make my life more meaningful. I only meet people occasionally and when I do, I become an ordinary person like them. 

Many spiritual traditions also emphasize deeply meaningful, selfless, and karmic connections that transcend superficiality. The spiritual perspective encourages relationships that promote growth and transformation, rather than being based on possessiveness or selfish desires. 

So being alone is beautiful. Loneliness is lovely. 

I AM MY OWN GOOD FRIEND AND RELATION TOO!

I am immune to other external influences.

Q: After awakening, don't people strive for external validation?

Krishna: Did you know even seeking respect is seeking external validation?

“If everybody likes you, you are doing something wrong.”
This  suggests that striving to be universally liked leads to a lack of authenticity and conviction, as it requires compromising your true identity and values to please everyone. It implies that if your actions or principles are consistently liked by everyone, you are likely avoiding making different, difficult or unpopular decisions, or that you are suppressing your own voice, opinions and values to fit in. The core idea is that true character is revealed through principled stands, which will inevitably alienate some people, and that a constant desire to be liked can result in a shallow, uncommitted self. 
 
If everyone likes you then you are lying to someone. That someone is most probably yourself.
 
If you wear a mask for too long, there will come a time when you can not remove it without removing your own face.
 
"If everybody likes you, you have a serious problem"
This suggests that universal approval can indicate a lack of authenticity or depth in your character. It implies that:
 
  1. Compromise of Values: If you try to please everyone, you might compromise your own values and beliefs, leading to a superficial persona.
  2. Lack of Depth: Genuine relationships often involve disagreements or difficult conversations. If everyone likes you, it may mean you’re not engaging deeply enough with others.
  3. Fear of Conflict: It can indicate a fear of conflict or confrontation, which might prevent you from being true to yourself or expressing your own true opinions.
  4. Inauthenticity: Striving for universal approval may lead to inauthentic interactions, making it difficult to form meaningful connections.

In essence, these quotes highlight the importance of being true to oneself and suggest that it's normal, even healthy, to have differing opinions and relationships.

I am not comfortable with everybody liking or loving or respecting me. Because these are signs of external validation.

Q: What did you feel very difficult to do after awakening?

Krishna: Communicating with people!

Sometimes no matter how clearly you speak, people will only hear and comprehend what their level of knowledge and awareness allows. 
This is really agonizing. 
You feel like an individual interacting with aliens, but still keep trying!

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