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Q: Dr. Krishna, I am a frequent flier. All these days I didn't feel fear but after the Air India crash, I don't feel like flying again. How can I get rid of my fear?
Krishna: I can fully understand your situation. Aerophobia is a common fear. But when something like this happens even a normally courageous person gets bothered. To come out of this phobia, I can tell you to watch these videos:
Well that was an assurance from a pilot.
Then there are stats of airplane safety which say
However, as a person of science I have another view on this. It is easy to say these things and get assurances. But still if you watch a plane falling from the sky and exploding like a bomb, that visual sticks to your mind more effectively than these assurances.
Moreover, nothing is in your control when you are in a plane. You are in an enclosed space where your safety is in somebody else's hands or something else's working conditions you know nothing about.
The fight-or-flight response is the body's automatic, physiological reaction to an acute threat or stress, preparing it to either confront the danger (fight) or escape it (flight). This response involves the activation of the sympathetic nervous system and the release of stress hormones, leading to physical changes like increased heart rate, rapid breathing, and heightened senses.
And let me ask you a final question. Is any place safe in this physical world? What if a terrorist plants a bomb in the train or bus you are about to travel. What if the housewife residing next to your flat forgets to switch off the cooking gas regulator while going to her negative place and the gas leaks and explodes when somebody switches on an electrical gadget? Are these things in your control? Can you avoid them despite taking all the precautions?
What about the people who were in the medical college hostel mess on which this plane fell? They were not flying. They were on the ground but still got entangled in this tragedy and some even lost their lives.
That is life. Very uncertain and depends on several unknown factors. If you try to think and imagine all those things and situations, you can never live or think properly and can never be happy and relieved.
When you have a life, death is inevitable because of some cause. But how you overcome that evolutionary biological fear and fact and live your life relatively safely and realistically makes you stoic. Courage is not having fear, but overcoming it successfully to lead a good life.
Between birth and death there is life to live. Fear is an emotion designed by evolution to protect individuals from danger and threats. It should serve only that purpose. It shouldn't get out of control and stop you from living a good and comfortable life by arresting other aspects of your life. That is where control of your mind comes and helps you. Follow that route.
Then take a small trip and then increase your time on airplanes. You will be alright.
Dr. Krishna Kumari Challa
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Jun 17