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“Criticism is something you can easily avoid by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” ~Aristotle
The Benefits of Criticism:
1. Looking for seeds of truth in criticism encourages humility. It’s not easy to take an honest look at yourself and your weaknesses, but you can only grow if you’re willing to try.
2. Learning from criticism allows you to improve. Almost every critique gives you a tool to more effectively create the tomorrow you visualize.
3. Criticism opens you up to new perspectives and new ideas you may not have considered. Whenever someone challenges you, they help expand your thinking.
4. Your critics give you an opportunity to practice active listening. This means you resist the urge to analyze in your head, planning your rebuttal, and simply consider what the other person is saying.
5. You have the chance to practice forgiveness when you come up against harsh critics. Most of us carry around stress and frustration that we unintentionally misdirect from time to time.
6. It’s helpful to learn how to sit with the discomfort of an initial emotional reaction instead of immediately acting or retaliating. All too often we want to do something with our feelings—generally not a great idea!
7. Criticism gives you the chance to foster problem solving skills, which isn’t always easy when you’re feeling sensitive, self-critical, or annoyed with your critic.
8. Receiving criticism that hits a sensitive spot helps you explore unresolved issues. Maybe you’re sensitive about your intelligence because you’re holding onto something someone said to you years ago—something you need to release.
9. Interpreting someone else’s feedback is an opportunity for rational thinking—sometimes, despite a negative tone, criticism is incredibly useful.
10. Criticism encourages you to question your instinctive associations and feelings; praise is good, criticism is bad. If we recondition ourselves to see things in less black and white terms, there’s no stop to how far we can go!
11. Criticism presents an opportunity to choose peace over conflict. Oftentimes, when criticized our instinct is to fight, creating unnecessary drama. The people around us generally want to help us, not judge us.
12. Fielding criticism well helps you mitigate the need to be right. Nothing closes an open mind like ego—bad for your personal growth, and damaging for relationships.
13. Your critics give you an opportunity to challenge any people-pleasing tendencies. Relationships based on a constant need for approval can be draining for everyone involved. It’s liberating to let people think whatever they want—they’re going to do it anyway.
14. Criticism gives you the chance to teach people how to treat you. If someone delivers it poorly, you can take this opportunity to tell them, “I think you make some valid points, but I would receive them better if you didn’t raise your voice.”
15. Certain pieces of criticism teach you not to sweat the small stuff. In the grand scheme of things, it doesn’t matter that your boyfriend thinks you load the dishwasher “wrong.”
16. The more time you spend dwelling about what someone said, the less time you have to do something with it.
17. If you improve how you operate after receiving criticism, this will save time and energy in the future. When you think about from that perspective—criticism as a time saver—it’s hard not to appreciate it!
18. Fostering the ability to let go of your feelings and thoughts about being critiqued can help you let go in other areas of your life. Letting go of worries, regrets, stresses, fears, and even positive feelings helps you root yourself in the present moment. Mindfulness is always the most efficient use of time.
19. Criticism reinforces the power of personal space. Taking 10 minutes to process your emotions, perhaps by writing in a journal, will ensure you respond well. And responding the well the first time prevents one critical comment from dominating your day.
20. In some cases, criticism teaches you how to interact with a person, if they’re negative or hostile, for example. Knowing this can save you a lot of time and stress in the future.
21. Learning to receive false criticism—feedback that has no constructive value—without losing your confidence is a must if you want to do big things in life. The more attention your work receives, the more criticism you’ll have to field.
22. When someone criticizes you, it shines a light on your own insecurities. If you secretly agree that you’re lazy, you should get to the root of that. Why do you believe that—and what can you do about it?
23. Learning to move forward after criticism, even if you don’t feel incredibly confident, ensures no isolated comment prevents you from seizing your dreams. Think of it as separating the wheat from the chaff; takes what’s useful, leave the rest, and keep going!
24. When someone else appraises your harshly, you have an opportunity to monitor your internal self-talk. Research indicates up to 80% of our thoughts are negative. Take this opportunity to monitor and change your thought processes so you don’t drain and sabotage yourself!
25. Receiving feedback well reminds you it’s OK to have flaws—imperfection is part of being human. If you can admit weakness and work on them without getting down on yourself, you’ll experience far more happiness, peace, enjoyment, and success.
We are all perfectly imperfect, and other people may notice that from time to time. We may even notice in it each other.
This is a part of an article I read on another website Speaking Tree.
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Here is a list of constructive constructive strategies that can help you in dealing with criticism in your respective life, as reported on MENSXP.
Hold Your Reactions and Control Your Anger
Usually the first reaction of humans in response to criticism is anger or rage. It is advisable to hold your reaction and give it some time before riding the emotional way. Allow the sense of logic to sink in and guide you past the anger. By doing so, you would understand the true meaning and intention behind the criticism, and will in turn help you to reach greater heights in personal and professional life.
Seeing a positive in a negative situation can work wonders on your life. Hence it is always advisable to take in criticism as a constructive feedback and thank the critic for pointing out your mistake. Try to address the issues pointed out by the critic and avoid repeating the mistake for the betterment of your future.
Be a Better Person
Do not consider criticism as personal attack and react violently. Consider it as a scrutiny of your action, not you as a person. This will help you to detach from criticism emotionally and helps you to see the positive side of it. Even if an individual behaves in an inhuman way, you don’t have to do the same and stoop to a low level. It is always advisable to maintain high moral ground and try to become a better person.
Learn From Criticism
Every criticism, irrespective of its true intention, gives you an opportunity to educate yourself. It allows you to look for errors in your action, correct them immediately and create a future course of action. Having a positive frame of mind allows you to sail through any situation and lead a better life.
You should avoid being competitive about criticism and refrain from being revengeful. The fact is that criticizing someone or something is not part of a competition and it is essential for an individual to uphold high moral values. You can humor the situation or be positively sarcastic about meaningless criticism. By doing so and displaying such immense maturity you are bound to become a self-assured and confident individual.
Accepting criticism in a positive and graceful way is not an impossible task. All you need is a bit of effort and the right frame of mind.